Estranged Sibling Therapy
is a form of family therapy focused on helping siblings who have become emotionally distant, disconnected, or completely cut off from one another. Estrangement between siblings can stem from childhood rivalries, trauma, parental favoritism, abuse, inheritance disputes, or differences in values and life paths.
Goals of Estranged Sibling Therapy:
Rebuild trust and communication
Process past hurts or unresolved trauma
Understand each otherโs perspectives without blame
Establish boundaries and healthier relational dynamics
Explore the possibility of reconnectionโthough not all cases end in reconciliation
What It Might Involve:
Individual and joint sessions to understand each sibling's emotional experience
Family systems approach to explore family patterns, roles, and influence of parents
Conflict resolution tools to improve communication and manage disagreements
Psychoeducation around trauma, attachment, and boundaries
Grief work, especially if one sibling doesnโt want to reconcile
This therapy is particularly helpful for clients who feel stuck in emotional pain over the lost relationship, even if full reconciliation isnโt possible. The ultimate focus is healingโindividually, or within the sibling bond.